Traditionally, as the host, the father of the bride would give the toast. More commonly today, the best man and maid of honor also give toasts. In addition, other wedding party members, the father of the groom, etc. are also likely to give a toast. It’s best to determine in advance whom you would like to give the toast. Don't forget to give the names to the MC for introduction. It’s good to have no more than 3 toastmasters!
Traditionally, toasts occur following dinner, prior to the cutting of the cake or serving of the desserts. The father of the bride should speak first, followed by the best man and maid of honor.
You do not have to stand. If you are seated you can remain seated. Raise your glass and sip your drink only after others have raised theirs.
Brainstorm ideas and ask yourself some questions. How did you first meet the bride/groom? How were you told of the engagement? Were you present when they met? How were you told of their new relationship? Is there scripture or a poem that would fit you or them?
Keep it brief. Don't try to be something your not. If you're not funny, don't try to be a comedian. If you are sentimental, it’s OK to include it in your toast. It’s also OK to prepare notes. Don’t forget to practice a few times to be sure you’re familiar with what you want to say. Beware of the ‘ums’ and words that creep into the spaces of your speech. It’s OK to pause and slow your speech. Be sure you eat something, and be sure not to drink too much before your toast.
Raise your glass!
Planner Girl:)
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