Sand Ceremony

The sand ceremony has become a popular substitute for the unity candle. It’s a great option for outdoor ceremonies where candles are at the mercy of the wind! The concept is similar to the unity ceremony.

The Meaning
As the two sands blend, the grains symbolize a coming together of two lives into one. The colored grains, once poured into the unity vase can never be put back into their separate vases. They are forever entwined just as the hearts and lives of the bride and groom.

Variations
Children: If children are a part of the new family, the sand ceremony can involve them also. Some families choose a different color for each member.

Including God: Some sand ceremonies will have the pastor or reverend pour white sand either in the bottom of the container or throughout to represent God in the marriage. You may also put a stone in the bottom to represent that God is the cornerstone and foundation of the marriage.

Parents- Just as the mothers would light a candle in the unity ceremony, they can also pour sand during their entrance down the aisle. The sand can be a different color or can match the color of their child.

The container
The container that you decide to use is very important. If it’s going to be on display, think about where you will put it. It should match the décor. You can put it in an heirloom vase, a vintage bottle, or monogrammed vase. The possibilities are endless!
These containers can be found on Daisy Days.

Colors
You can pick colors that match your wedding or simply black and white or black and cream to match any décor.

I recently had a couple use scented salt instead of sand. Bath salts are good aroma and decor for your home!

Check out some sample sand ceremony vows!
Choose your container wisely if you plan to keep it for a while!
Planner Girl:)